Life hacking techniques part 7: Thanking Her !

someone did something for you and you felt so great after that and you wanted to say your heart out to the person but you find yourself wound in the chains of just one phrase and that's "thanks a lot", some will say "thanq" many times but that's stale, you know what you might get a lot of thank you notes on internet but what i have for you is a layout that you can follow in personal relationships , and take my words , apply this and your complementing style will be unmatched. it 'll rain help on you the next time you approach the same person again.

Here's the Algorithm :

Step 1. explicitly recognize that they helped you on something and that you appreciate it :

Example : hi man, i just can't tell you how much i felt happy after receiving that note from you ....

Step 2. Share with the person why are you thankful to him/her ?

Example : just when i wanted to enrich my experience and needed help it was great of you sharing that information with me .....

Step 3: Appreciate them for being part of your life .

Example : i won't say that often but i just wanna say that you have been such a nice friend to me , thank you !

Just apply these three simple steps and feel the change , your conversation will rise a step further !

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