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5 lessons learnt till 19


 Today something really interesting happened , you know what ?, i found my childhood snap and i looked so cute so adorable but the other side it also makes me walk down the memory lane and have a look at everything that i experienced since my inception on this planet and i come up with 5 lessons which i got till date, it's all experience and here i share with you "5 lessons learnt till 19".


1. Never Expect Back:

                                  one of the greatest lesson that i learnt is that never expect something back from people , you want to help, please help, but helping with a motive to get it back one day is living and pushing yourself to the doors of disappointment's.I know being human we have a core psychology driven by the rule of contribution but actions do pay, just have patience.


2. People will never be same:
                                                No matter how great relations you had with someone or how well people used to mingle with you, there is one thing that people's attitude will eventually change toward you. according to me, people's attitude towards you is a function of their needs and since the latter might change so is the former.so expecting same is just like living virtual, so except whats in front and face accordingly.


3. Get upset where it pays:
                                            This is a great one as i usually used to get upset when someone doesn't messages me, when people ignore me, when i lost popularity and even when someone else gained it and i kept thinking on that and it would appear as if it was happening to me. thus i came up with a brilliant one that get upset with things which contribute to your long term motives rather then being upset and spoiling the future.


4. Take responsibility:
                                     There might be times when things go the opposite way that is the time where we need to take responsibility for what happened rather than playing blame game and not reaching the desired outcome.



5. Be Specific and flexible:
                                            This is the most important one, sometimes we might have goals  that are so compelling that we leave everything for it and then still don't get what we wanted that is the point where we need to stop and get flexible in changing our approach without losing the real focus.


I would like to end with a quote :
" Broader success rates are achieved by narrow focus !"




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  1. shubham sharma25 November 2011 at 18:34

    you learned it all right ,sir!!

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  2. CrypticSoul25 November 2011 at 21:18

    yes i did, this is what experience and observations can do and the 2nd point which i mentioned is the closest to me.

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