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When i had nothing to say !

It was just another Saturday morning i opened my account and just had a blank mind but a zeal to do something different today , nit that usual likes and simple comments but to do something filled with spice of argument , i was browsing through the recent stories and yeah , here comes one , no comments on it till now and i got my prey ;) . i just had nothing to say , nothing at all and you know what , this post is for you when u too feel same and then what to do ? , is here , have a look at the snaps i provided where i applied this with my friend ;) coping strategies 1. always remember at the unconscious level that you are just there and you already have it all within what u need ! continued in next snap .... 2. When u have nothing to say , make others run their tongue. 3.Making people justify themselves gives you the needed breathing space. 4. Questions  are the best attack when you have nothing in your favor and to add they are the best counter too. after this he did

why people hurt ?

going back into the deep memory lane where lies nothing but darkness and realities of how much rude people have been , no light of kindness expect the ray of love by family overshadowed by the cruelty of the world outside who treat humans like toolboxes. This is somewhat funny , i was just thinking , how come everyone has so much time to hurt me always ? , i mean i just can't stop myself from laughing that every time i help someone why do i get in return a harsh end , i m sick of it now , i don't feel like helping people , i just feel like i should only mend my own ways let people brick their walls themselves , let them be the drivers of their own destinations and probably they are for them i m just a signboard. Now , sometimes do you feel the same , do you feel like doing good for people sometimes doesn't pays the way we expect it to be and sometimes suddenly their is an outburst where it was least expected . thinking all day about it and listening to some audio's

if(Good == Poor)

My friend said to me  "you know what , i was such a good girl to him but he left me" and she just felt back into tears , i just had nothing to say i stayed numb and i knew i didn't had the answer. Something really screwed my head up , i was feeling "what the heck is prevailing in this world ?, why every time the good ones have to sacrifice , why don't i get results at good efforts ", and possibly i have an answer now , the problem is not with world , its not even with the people around me , the problem lies inside of me, you might be a bit surprised but let me tell u "good efforts always take the poor rewards", and remember poor efforts lead to NO rewards. now this seems quite interesting , in the race we have developed a habit to be good at things , i remember when i got a "good" remark on my notebook when i was a kid i used to feel like i m on cloud nine but now facing the real life challenges and situations it makes me feel sorry

A bed of concrete

I didn't found her, the gate was locked and the bell was ringing and ringing and ringing , no response from other side , i called her and the same was with the phone with every call i made and got no response my anger and my anxiety kept on building, finally after waiting for 20 minutes i recalled that she might had gone to her friends home  and surely then she will be back by 5pm .  so with 2 hours to go , i just couldn't stand in the front of my gate staring it , so i decided a walk around my colony , with my bread basket empty i started roaming around , started having a walk across the various parks watching the old men and women sitting in groups and enjoying the sunlight and having fun , but i decided to walk more rather than giving my legs a rest.  as i kept walking i saw a man sitting on the sidewalk , i kept walking and starring at him and after a while i was into the deep lane of my imaginations..it was just past 30 min and i was feeling so devastated and frustrated

8 minutes and 5 strategies

Unlock the secret to be a great influential person among your friends and other people , this is all by observation..... just set back relax and watch me 'live' giving you the real and practical "8 minutes to influence", tips ....   Have a great life ahead 

Why women are different?

all right so how many of you feel that women are emotional, illogical ,they are not rational in their approach rather they go with the wind of feelings. so let me tell you one thing "you are absolutely incorrect !". they are as much rational and logical as the men are , they take things logically and are as emotional as we are. so if the girls are just rational, emotional and logical as we are where does the differences crop up?  , and the answer to this question is "the basic survival strategies",  now what i mean by this is the primary basic instinct of both the sexes differ , so let me uncover the basic survival instinct of man and woman , here we go : man's survival instinct : so when it comes to the male the basic survival instinct is the physical strength , they look for the way in which their physical strengths can be enhanced and male's is more about achieving and getting, its more about solutions rather than pondering on the problem. female

Life hacking techniques: part 3

Proximity matters  All right so here we are , the part 3 of the life hacking series and in this one i m going to introduce you the obvious but the most important part of all and that is proximity. you know we might be having a great bonding with anyone but as said "distances always have the capacity to empty a filled heart", so based on this the first part to be kept in mind is about distances. now why is it always difficult to maintain a long distance relationship is just because the more the expenditure comes in maintaining  it more it loses the juice . so let me introduce you to the Psychology of proximity According to this law, things which are near each other seemed to be grouped together. since the proximity induces a collective entity so it makes the mind biased and thus leads to the feeling of oneness. so even if u didn't had great relations in the past , proximity always has the potential to turn it into what you really want and if u just at the start

The poetic Himanchal

"Khatam ho gai", was the spell i had as soon as i gave my last exam and came out of the examination centre, i was thrilled and both challenged as i had a huge list under my belt but who cares a trip to my dad's house was just on to my head. i rushed towards the cab and went straight to my house,my mom was doing the packing and i started mine too ,so finally it was 8:25pm and i was inside the bus and the journey began ...  in nature's lap                                                                                                     it was the same mundane route i used to traverse everyday and that same roadside scenes bored me and thus i slept. suddenly the conductor came and gave us a paper bag at about 4am , openiong my eyes slowly i gazed at it and it said "Hill sickness bag", wooo i was just about to reach as the hilly regions had started, i rubbed my eyes and started gazing through the window for the scenes but unfortunately it was dark all arou