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The Pleasure of pain

Lying down carelessly , having no tension what so ever watching my favorite film and then something intervened, and you know what it was "hunger", i felt like i should have something but then a war started film or food , film or food then it got intense and intense and it was intensifying but then film came out to be the winner , after 30 minutes the troops of hunger again started to rebel and this time i could not stop myself from leaving that film in between and have a meal.
Does this happen with u too? sometimes when u just desire to do things and then you say lets put it off and you resume the same mundane job where you find pleasure but then something happens and the AK-47 gets triggered in our brains and we start doing something what we thought we should and make that a must.
                                          so this is where the master lesson lies , people work out most of their chores not because of desires more but to avoid pain at some unconscious level and you tell me who knows it better than a student who rides all day along with his work just to avoid punishments sometimes, we try and make others happy or try to make our dear ones cheer when they get upset because of us , because at some level we install a feeling that not doing so might make us lose them.
frustration sometimes triggers to such an extent that we make things happen which might be just low priorities for us , sometimes we get so much pissed off by things that we make them happen and then we say "aha i did it :)", fear of losing sometimes makes us indulged in those things more so as to save it. Remember "the graph of loss is more steep than the graph of gain".
                                                                                    so now coming to the real spice that drives of pain sometimes drive our actions to such a level where we manifest things and make things happen for ourselves. so the next time you ever come across to my dear Pain , make sure you do it for a force to turn the table your side and not let it go down the sleeper.
Remember That pain can sometimes bring the reason to party , just ponder !.  

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