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Boys don't Cry ?,hmm..

Silence precedes and silence succeeds it, it's decipheration is beyond the scope of ink but i would like to give one, life without it would be too heavy and with it would be a way too down, i don't know whether to be in the salty lane or follow the code of "i don't give a shit!", but an inner voice says ,"you do !", and that is where the journey begins. 

Sitting in a corner , dwelling deep into the sea of your memories and a thought struck you , you had no idea where did it come from, but you went with the flow because you enjoyed that sweet time or talk , now just as the butter melts over a hot toast, the thoughts started percolating into the deep subconscious and suddenly you find yourself wiping away your nose, your eyes are moist and you didn't wanted to but you did cry, common , how many of you have been in that place , say it up !  

it seems really amazing to me , i mean tears have got such a great importance in our lives , i really cannot imagine a life without it , you are happy , they roll down, you are sad , common they are your biggest support, you yawn they might be again back , be it pleasure or pain they are our friends forever. people might leave me , i might have no one to talk to but with tears , i can say i ll never be alone , my tears 'll never leave me. 

but they don't company you for no reason, a lover's cry , a mother's fear, a child's insecurity , a brother's love and sometimes a care too much is all you need to have them right there sitting besides you, they might roll down our eyes and we might feel good and relieved but a Tear in a loved one's eyes open a battle straightaway, when a mother sees her child crying she can't resist herself from comforting him , a brother will put all the world aside to wipe his sister's tears off, a son's biggest nightmare is his mother's cry and for those whose day starts with someone smile ,a tear in their eyes is the death of their own happiness. 

boys don't cry ! , who says that ?, they cry but they don't show it up, they bury their pain deep under the ash of their burnt emotions and they water it with their eyes. who the hell knows what pain it when you are tired of pretending yourself as strong and are finding a place to weep and this world's too cruel , doesn't even gives one. the pain get's embedded and the tears get dried and then people say "boys don't cry !".
parents hide their tears in their smiles , lover's in their passion,a sister in her love,friends in their craziness, a brother in his tease and some in their care , how do you do it ?   

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  1. If you are a human, you'll cry...I think there will not be any gender difference in that...

    Regards
    village girl

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    1. Absolutely right,atleast emotional tears don't undergo gender bias . :)

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  2. when tears are uncontrolable v say:" sumthng went in r eyes, wait i vl wash my eyes !! "

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