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The power of Blame

I was sitting inside the examination hall , with everyone writing and engrossed in their sheets from north south east and west, but i was not , why ? just because i didn't knew enough and so i stared watching the fellow classmates and that feeling of guilt started to come , i looked at the paper i rolled my eyes up , i looked at the paper again again rolled my eyes , i looked again and rolled my eyes and every time i did it  the feeling of guilt magnified.
 
 Then started the game , the exam was over i knew what i did, i just could not bear the pain for not studying ! i sat back , relaxed a little and then asked  myself "What went wrong ?" and the incredible critic inside me came out with a brilliant angle "the teacher was too harsh designing the paper", and isn't this true sometimes we just pass the blame to others because they just won't come and say "no , i didn't" and you would be at the cushion but still the inner war was cropping and then i realized that it was  high time for me to take the responsibility and now i said "it was me , i was wrong , i didn't act :( !" , hell i was down , thrust of guilt was intensifying and i was going down into it and every way out looked blur. 
                                                                 "when people succeed they party and when they fail they Ponder ", and so did i , and i came up with a brilliant answer from a source (Courtesy : Robbins) . you know the best is to blame the pattern that we follow , and this is so correct , you tell me , has their been times when u didn't accomplish what u want ? , and if u just ponder what went wrong the answer would be the way of your approach , i was not that u cannot , i was just the wrong road taken.if u r not in shape right now , why ?? its just because u live life or u have your eating habits the wrong way , just you change your pattern and here we fly , success  lies ahead! 
           so what now change the road , blame the pattern , blame your blueprint of life , blame the way u approached and not the real you as YOU have the power to transform virtually anything !
remember
"what a man can do is incredible , but what he will is a matter of priorities !"
so are you ready to transform your life to reach the marks of higher accomplishments , sky is the not the limit , universe is in reach ! :) 

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