Skip to main content

Life hacking techniques part 7: Thanking Her !

someone did something for you and you felt so great after that and you wanted to say your heart out to the person but you find yourself wound in the chains of just one phrase and that's "thanks a lot", some will say "thanq" many times but that's stale, you know what you might get a lot of thank you notes on internet but what i have for you is a layout that you can follow in personal relationships , and take my words , apply this and your complementing style will be unmatched. it 'll rain help on you the next time you approach the same person again.

Here's the Algorithm  :



Step 1. explicitly recognize that they helped you on something and that you appreciate it :

Example : hi man, i just can't tell you how much i felt happy after receiving that note from you ....

Step 2. Share with the person why are you thankful to him/her ?

Example : just when i wanted to enrich my experience and needed help it was great of you sharing that information with me .....

Step 3: Appreciate them for being part of your life .

Example : i won't say that often but i just wanna say that you have been such a nice friend to me , thank you !

Just apply these three simple steps and feel the change , your conversation will rise a step further ! 

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Why do you want a relationship?

Sitting today and remembering some of my friends saying that they want to be in relationship with someone , they want to have someone who really makes them feel special , they want someone who shares a certain level of intimacy and also the level of significance with them and what else the favorite line of every teenager slipped from their tongue "man, i want a relationship"!   . so my this blog is featuring to unlock the real question that is relationship a need or an exaggerated emotion and i will unlock the real reason which pulls people to fall into one. So let's start the journey to unlock what drives us to fall into it ? 1. The way in which we are brought up :  here i would like to bring to light the difference in the time period of dependencies which humans face and what animals are subjected to, i mean we are for atleast 14 years or even more we \are dependent on someone else or more precisely on our parents and we have someone to have...

90 days to KICK ASS

It feels good to be back guy, it's been a long time i last wrote but that may be because i was really going thru some shit in life and i got serious about it and so here i am guys giving you guys an advice and take a serious note of this "Shit happens but just don't get serious about it incase u do then join the gym". okay lets get straight on this , i used to love a girl and she pretended she loved me , the bonding was way too strong guys and i really was serious about her and probably thats where i went wrong , doesnt it happens with u people , like u get serious about someone and then that person starts to treat u like a dog , fuck yes , same was with me , i loved her , i cared for her and in the end all i got was "i have so many friends i dont need a boyfriend ?", ohh man really , i was burnt till the core guys , i was like i didnt knew how to react , may be since it was the first one .i still remember her smiling face and those traces of sublimated l...

[+1 Add Friend] :'(

I really don't know how to react , why am i feeling this way but i just know one thing that i m not hurt , i m broke , sometimes i feel whether to thank God for making my life so eventful or to cry upon the way my life takes turns , i mean i face this dilemma every day and you know what i m tired of it but i won't give up. As soon as i start spitting my feelings on this editor i really feel good and fantastic and may be the best way to beat a limiting belief , a challenge or a situation that bothers you is to confront it and that's what i am doing while sharing my heart out with the rest of the people spread across the radius of 6371 km. Something really calamitous happened , i had a small fight with my best friend on the issue that i still cannot justify , actually that was not an issue,may be it was but i m still surprised for what i said ,then what she did and then what both of us did so as to counter attack and the situation got worse and wo...