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he broke but why ?

The hardest part according to me while writing a blog is to find an apt and interesting opening but you know what, i really don't give a damn to it for this post as this one is damn cool.
the smile on your face lets me know that you need me,
their's a truth in your eyes , saying you 'll never leave me,
the touch of your hand , says u 'll catch me whenever i fall , 
                                             you say it best when u say nothing at all :) 
 how great does this feel when you actually have someone to be with you always , you enjoy their company ,someone who is always there to solve or listen to your problems , someone with whom you can share everything without a second thought, they listen to you , you listen to them and your life looks just the perfect blend of every spice and you know what buddy , man you found a jewel , a jewel to be preserved , something we actually can't afford to lose, and you know what , "love found you"! 
spending time is great , having memories is fantastic, adoring someone is awesome,to be in someones lap all the time is majestic but if all this sounds so wondrous , why do people freak out of relationships ? , just when all this reaches it's peak, and may be my this blog will help you have a journey into the real thought process that is the real culprit of all.    
Success equals happiness
 am i a moron ?,love and success ?? whats the link , but here it is guys , trying to achieve two things simultaneously is an art, its not an accident or a coincidence , its a core designed thought process that helps people actually grow and contribute simultaneously.
now hitting the deck here it is , we all have a certain predefined level in our mind to which we want to achieve and soon as this level starts reaching its height , we tend to enter our zone , where everything looks in comfort and along with that arrises a question "now, what else ?", really , how many times you might do something and at the end you feels like , man cool i did it ! , but now what else ? , and it feels you are stuck at the same thing , and you want to come out of that , you actually want variety in life and in short "GROWTH". 
when people get what they wanted out of relationship in a very short span of time , they actually feel like, they had it all , but where is the original person who actually entered the zone, they feel like they are becoming dead in some senses and that might be career, relationship with the outer world or any other domains and the last step is they freak out of it, just in search so that they can actually grow beyond their present state , looks bad but this is the truth, and the only way out is when both the people grow simultaneously and that has to be a conscious decision and not a random pie.

Live with passion and keep Rocking 

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