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Chameleons Are Stable

Sitting back in corner and thinking about the past memories, wanting someone to share my feelings with my dear ones , my friends, tried to message some of them but no replies, i sat with myself and consoled that might be they are busy and just like time and tide never waits so do changes things kept going like that and all those people started forgetting the one who helped them in their times of adversity , who stood by them when they were breaking and may be when i need to share ,there's no pillow to my head.
This surely makes me say that people around are really dynamic they keep changing their approach, wow so much brilliant they are that they know talking to which person would benefit them, 

But amidst all this i had a friend who said to me one thing "You help others because you love to do that, be patient time will come and people will admire that but helping just to get an admiration is a buisiness and if you are getting that response you better deserve it , don't make life a transaction !"
and this is so apt because most of our relations wilth others break or get weaken beacuse of the load of expectations and what if we live a life of contribution with the anticipation of least profits , might help and it will ,
Do Remember 
irrespective of what You do for others, people might forget your good deeds one day.
but do them Anyway !!!!

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