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Life hacking techniques: part 4

The Power Of Unavailability  

Request : The knowledge which i am sharing with you , please use it as a force for good to deepen the existing relations and not to fool people around you , when feelings get hurt ,they explode silently but crushes from within . 

all right so here i am with my 4th edition of life hacking and this time what i have for you is a technique you can use to so as gain the significance level back in someones mind .

Analogy :
Being in Delhi i don't give a damn to bread !
i went to the college in rural southern India and there i was tired tired of having the food the authorities there provided i needed a change and i wanted bread at least , no chance you can get it in surroundings, we asked the mess coordinator there and he laughed at us :D , we were dying for it and when i came back to delhi that was the first thing i had !

so what can we get from it ? the lesson is :
"if u r losing significance in someones eyes or the other person is ignoring you the best way out is to to leave that person and give him his much needed space , remember your ABSENCE from their life will surely make them wonder and will provide you the power you deserve. if they come back they were your if they don't they never had been !"

i know it would be difficult for you to avoid the ones you love but just think of the great relation you will share when you gain back that significance level again , life will be a hit , isn't it ?

one liner : the more is the availability the less is the price !

good luck everyone , next blog soon on timed interrupts which will give you an insight into the fantastic technique to gain significance !

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http://designedthought.blogspot.in/2012/04/life-hacking-techniques-part-5.html
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