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why people hurt ?

going back into the deep memory lane where lies nothing but darkness and realities of how much rude people have been , no light of kindness expect the ray of love by family overshadowed by the cruelty of the world outside who treat humans like toolboxes.

This is somewhat funny , i was just thinking , how come everyone has so much time to hurt me always ? , i mean i just can't stop myself from laughing that every time i help someone why do i get in return a harsh end , i m sick of it now , i don't feel like helping people , i just feel like i should only mend my own ways let people brick their walls themselves , let them be the drivers of their own destinations and probably they are for them i m just a signboard.
Now , sometimes do you feel the same , do you feel like doing good for people sometimes doesn't pays the way we expect it to be and sometimes suddenly their is an outburst where it was least expected .
thinking all day about it and listening to some audio's by Anthony Robbins i have got a way to make myself feel better and if u feel the same way as i do , it ll make your life free of stress (the code word ) .
Situation 1 : sometimes people don't pay heed to those who helped them during their hours of needs and
                      stick to their own world , isn't it?
Situation 2 : sometimes people just share their sorrows with us and leave us in our time , they appear to us                             like the one's insensitive to other's and just like the butchers of other's feelings ?


Coping strategy :
now what u need to understand is that everyone has their basic needs which define their lifestyle ,
now the mantra is that
"people will violate their values so as to meet their needs !"
and this is really the one which changed the way i used to get upset when people did not respond the way i expected , the point is
"no one has the time to hurt others , they just satisfy their own needs , we happen to get into their ways and ask yourself "what else could this mean ?" "
so make sure you think it loud whenever u get angry on someone !

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  1. Rajagopalan23 January 2012 at 15:24

    very true. value systems are made not only flexible but also racing towards extinction in the present times. good thought provoking post.

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    1. CrypticSoul23 January 2012 at 18:43

      agreed sir but values can never be extinct rather they can just be modified for ease and that has been achieved through rationalizations and this is what is actually happening

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  2. http://allsubjects-live.blogspot.com27 January 2012 at 08:32

    The mantra kind a remove the bad taste left in my mouth from their using me and forgetting I exist.

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    1. CrypticSoul27 January 2012 at 18:49

      yes it does as the best part is it makes us get leverage on our own self , isn't it ?

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